“When they go low, we go high.”Michelle Obama
American - First Lady & Author|January 17, 1964

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Michelle Obama Quotes
Read 50 Michelle Obama quotes on education, self-worth, resilience, family and lifting others up from the former First Lady and author of Becoming.
“You don't have to be somebody different to be important. You're important in your own right.”Michelle Obama
“Your story is what you have, what you will always have. It is something to own.”Michelle Obama
“Becoming isn't about arriving somewhere or achieving a certain aim. I see it instead as forward motion, a means of evolving, a way to reach continuously toward a better self.”Michelle Obama
“I have learned that as long as I hold fast to my beliefs and values, and follow my own moral compass, then the only expectations I need to live up to are my own.”Michelle Obama
“One of the lessons that I grew up with was to always stay true to yourself and never let what somebody else says distract you from your goals.”Michelle Obama
“Remember who you always were, where you came from, who your parents were, how they raised you. Because that authentic self is going to follow you all through life.”Michelle Obama
“Success is only meaningful and enjoyable if it feels like your own.”Michelle Obama
“Success isn't about how much money you make; it's about the difference you make in people's lives.”Michelle Obama
“The difference between you and success is not that you never fail, but it's how you recover from those failures, that you keep getting up time and time again. You figure out what you did wrong, and then you make it right.”Michelle Obama
“You should never view your challenges as a disadvantage. Instead, your experience facing and overcoming adversity is actually one of your biggest advantages.”Michelle Obama
“The one way to get me to work my hardest was to doubt me.”Michelle Obama
“Just try new things. Don't be afraid. Step out of your comfort zones and soar, all right?”Michelle Obama
“You may not always have a comfortable life and you will not always be able to solve all of the world's problems at once, but don't ever underestimate the importance you can have, because history has shown us that courage can be contagious and hope can take on a life of its own.”Michelle Obama
“There are still many causes worth sacrificing for, so much history yet to be made.”Michelle Obama
“Choose people who lift you up.”Michelle Obama
“Find people who will make you better.”Michelle Obama
“I always tell young girls, surround yourself with goodness. I learned early on how to get the haters out of my life.”Michelle Obama
“Do not be afraid to ask for help. Nobody gets through college on their own.”Michelle Obama
“All of us are mentors. One of the things I've always done throughout my life, I have always found that person, that group of people that I was going to reach my hand out and help bring them along with me.”Michelle Obama
“Our greatness has always come from people who expect nothing and take nothing for granted: folks who work hard for what they have, then reach back and help others after them.”Michelle Obama
“We learned about gratitude and humility: that so many people had a hand in our success, from the teachers who inspired us to the janitors who kept our school clean, and we were taught to value everyone's contribution and treat everyone with respect.”Michelle Obama
“We learned about honesty and integrity: that the truth matters, that you don't take shortcuts or play by your own set of rules, and success doesn't count unless you earn it fair and square.”Michelle Obama
“Barack and I were raised with so many of the same values: that you work hard for what you want in life, that your word is your bond, and that you treat people with dignity and respect, even if you don't know them and even if you don't agree with them.”Michelle Obama
“If I made a commitment, I stood by that commitment. Because when you become leaders, the most important thing you have is your word, your trust. That's where respect comes from.”Michelle Obama
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About Michelle Obama
American - First Lady & Author | Born January 17, 1964
Michelle Obama (born January 17, 1964), born Michelle LaVaughn Robinson, is an American lawyer, author and former First Lady of the United States, raised on the South Side of Chicago. A graduate of Princeton University and Harvard Law School, she worked at a Chicago law firm, where she met her future husband, Barack Obama, and later held leadership roles in city government and at the University of Chicago Medical Center.
As the first African American First Lady, from 2009 to 2017, she launched initiatives on children's health (Let's Move!), support for military families (Joining Forces) and education for young people and girls around the world. Her 2018 memoir, *Becoming*, became one of the best-selling memoirs in history. Admired by many for her warmth and advocacy, she remains a widely followed public voice. Here are 50 Michelle Obama quotes.
Frequently asked questions
Quick answers about Michelle Obama and these famous quotes.
Who is Michelle Obama?
Michelle Obama is an American lawyer and author who served as First Lady of the United States from 2009 to 2017. She was the first African American First Lady.
What is Becoming about?
*Becoming* (2018) is Michelle Obama's memoir about her childhood in Chicago, her career, her marriage and her years in the White House. It sold more than 10 million copies worldwide.
What does "When they go low, we go high" mean?
She said the line in a 2016 speech, explaining her family's approach to criticism and insults: rather than responding with cruelty, you respond with dignity and integrity.
What was Let's Move!?
Let's Move! was Michelle Obama's campaign, launched in 2010, to reduce childhood obesity by encouraging healthier food, more exercise and better nutrition in schools.
How did Michelle and Barack Obama meet?
They met in 1989 at the Chicago law firm Sidley Austin, where Michelle was assigned to mentor Barack as a summer associate. They married in 1992 and have two daughters, Malia and Sasha.
What other books has Michelle Obama written?
Besides *Becoming*, she wrote *American Grown* (2012), about the White House kitchen garden, and *The Light We Carry* (2022), offering advice on handling uncertainty and challenges.