“Wake up and smell the coffee.”
Ann Landers
American - Advice Columnist|July 4, 1918 - June 22, 2002

50 FAMOUS QUOTES · ADVICE COLUMNIST
Read 50 of the best Ann Landers quotes on love, class, maturity, marriage and common sense from America's most famous advice columnist.
“Wake up and smell the coffee.”
Ann Landers
“Are you better off with him or without him?”
Ann Landers
“In the final analysis, it is not what you do for your children but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings.”
Ann Landers
“Some people believe holding on and hanging in there are signs of great strength. However, there are times when it takes much more strength to know when to let go and then do it.”
Ann Landers
“Hanging onto resentment is letting someone you despise live rent-free in your head.”
Ann Landers
“The naked truth is always better than the best-dressed lie.”
Ann Landers
“Class is real. It can't be faked.”
Ann Landers
“Class is the sure-footedness that comes with having proved you can meet life.”
Ann Landers
“Class never runs scared. It is sure-footed and confident in the knowledge that you can meet life head on and handle whatever comes along.”
Ann Landers
“Class never makes excuses. It takes its lumps and learns from past mistakes.”
Ann Landers
“Class is considerate of others. It knows that good manners is nothing more than a series of petty sacrifices.”
Ann Landers
“Class never tries to build itself up by tearing others down. Class is already up and need not strive to look better by making others look worse.”
Ann Landers
“Class can "walk with kings and keep its virtue and talk with crowds and keep the common touch." Everyone is comfortable with the person who has class because that person is comfortable with himself.”
Ann Landers
“Class bespeaks an aristocracy unrelated to ancestors or money. Some extremely wealthy people have no class at all, while others who are struggling to make ends meet are loaded with it.”
Ann Landers
“If you have class, you don't need much of anything else. If you don't have it, no matter what else you have, it doesn't make much difference.”
Ann Landers
“Maturity: Be able to stick with a job until it is finished. Be able to bear an injustice without having to get even. Be able to carry money without spending it. Do your duty without being supervised.”
Ann Landers
“Maturity is the ability to control anger and settle differences without violence or destruction.”
Ann Landers
“Maturity is patience. It is the willingness to postpone immediate pleasure in favour of the long-term gain.”
Ann Landers
“Maturity is perseverance, the ability to sweat out a project or a situation in spite of heavy opposition and discouraging setbacks.”
Ann Landers
“Maturity is the capacity to face unpleasantness and frustration, discomfort and defeat, without complaint or collapse.”
Ann Landers
“Maturity is humility. It is being big enough to say, "I was wrong."
Ann Landers
“Maturity is the ability to make a decision and stand by it.”
Ann Landers
“Maturity means dependability, keeping one's word, coming through in a crisis.”
Ann Landers
“Maturity is the art of living in peace with that which we cannot change, the courage to change that which should be changed, no matter what it takes, and the wisdom to know the difference.”
Ann Landers
“Love is friendship that has caught fire.”
Ann Landers